Are you kidding me?

So I am in the process of cooking a nice meal, say to Sam "it would be nice if you knew how to wash clothes" Jake says "Ill wash the clothes". Hours later the clothes not washed Sams hair not cut and clothes he was going to fold last week still not folded. He finally puts a load in and hours later no more loads have been washed. I decide the clothes aren't going to was themselves so I go to the laundry room and see all of Sam's soccer clothes on the laundry table. When I ask Jake why he didn't wash them he said "cause they are dirty". That is the dumbest thing I ever heard!!!!!! I am going to fold the clothes now. They have been in the living room for over a week because Jake said he would fold them. He even had a day off and still didn't fold the basket. Oh well.

Money Stingy

You have got to be kidding me. Again it never stops amazing me how you think your money is funny and mine is right on time. If we are on vacation and we are spending "Our" money then that means it needs to come from the joint account. We put enough in it to go on vacation and we have known about this vacation for a while. If we decide to put up our "personal" money for a trip then you cannot complain that you want some of your money back from the joint account and say that I shouldn't get any of my money back. That doesn't sound fair at all. As you st there and sleep I cant help but think that I would have had a much better time without you on this trip. I could have done without the constant having to defend myself too. Sidebar and unrelated to the topic but... I DO NOT WANT ANYMORE CHILDREN RIGHT NOW!!!! Whoever doesn't like it can kiss my fat butt. I don't care how many children you have or if you think I would be just fine or even if you think I should give my husband another child because it is the "right thing to do". Mind your own darn business. Stop asking me when I am going to have another child. I wanna say when pigs fly. I am not opposed to possibly having another child in the future but my time frame is none of your business. Did you know that my husband is thinking about the money and said he doesn't think we can afford one right now? Why do certain (white) people, not all but many, wait until they are good and ready to have children? They get there finances in order, travel and do everything they want to do for themselves first. If having a child is on the list early in life then they do it but if not, the pressure is not there. Why do black people/minorities, not all but many, want to have kids when they are 20 and don't have any money to take care of them. $1,300 per month for child care for 2 children, are you kidding me? I am fine with being a soccer/track mom to my ONE nine year old son. I run around like a chicken with my head cut off as it is. YOU NEED TO STAY IN YOUR LANE AND DO YOUR THING AND NOT WORRY ABOUT ME!!!! My mom had me when she was 28 and my brother at 31 so I didn't grow up with a mom that was getting carded like the rest of many of you and I didn't miss out on anything because my mom was a little older. I could go on and on but I won't just think about how you feel when people are telling you what you need to do. Oh and one more thing, if my husband can't remember to look at his clothes and see that he needs Tshirts without holes then that is his problem. If he asked me to pick him up some shirts I would. I don't pack his clothes because I would most likely pack the wrong things and he would repack it anyway. Why is it that other married women think you are not as good a wife because you don't slave over stuff the way they do? I am ranting so I'll stop.